I do. It's the sound of a baby sleeping, which is no crying!
We decided to try the dreaded CIO (cry it out, as known on message boards) two Sundays ago.
My darling baby girl started playing me at night. She'd fall asleep in my arms but wake up the moment I put her in the crib and cry. So I'd pick her up, rock her to sleep, and then put her in her crib. And then she'd cry. Lather, rinse, repeat.
Nothing is harder than hearing your precious cry alone in her crib. But I realized that that rocking a high school, or college, student to sleep each night is ridic.
I felt like a total jerk leaving her in her crib to cry. I would plan each night to get all kinds of cleaning done at night while she put herself to sleep, and it took about a week for her to learn to get to sleep without freaking the eff out. My house should have been spotless.
But hearing her cry for an hour would bring on a sort of attention deficit disorder where I would start projects but not finish them because I just wanted to drop everything and pick her up and snuggle her.
It wasn't until a week in that I realized her third nap of the day was probably what was keeping her from falling asleep on her own. She just wasn't tired enough to go to sleep.
Once I dropped the third nap, it was like a switch was hit and she'd cry for a second when I put her down and then she'd fall asleep.
Naptime is the next beast we have to conquer. I will admit this freely: I still hold my seven-month-old during every nap during the day. A lot of times we nap together, and it's something I look forward to.
But we agreed that in May we would try to get her to independently nap. We gave it a go in March, but crying twice a day for an hour made her a different baby.
Hopefully it goes well. Stay tuned!
She loves Cartman! I couldn't get both of them to not be blurry. |